What should I do if I love a girl and she apparently doesn't love me?

I used to like my bestie. I even told her my feelings, but she denied them. I tried everything to make her fall for me—I made efforts to keep her happy, always kept the convo going, and even did silly things just to win her over. I even changed schools (not the only reason, but it was one of them), hoping it might help, but nothing changed. After switching schools, she started drifting away from me, even though she promised she would be there for me. Then I realized it wasn’t her mistake—it was mine. I needed to get over her.

After that, my girlfriend came into my life in the most unexpected way. I never thought I would fall for anyone other than my best friend, but here I am, falling for my girlfriend more every day. She gives me all the things I once asked for from someone else, makes me happy even when it’s my mistake, and loves me unconditionally. Even though she’s really far away, she always finds a way to my heart from thousands of kilometers away. God fulfilled it all—everything I ever asked Him for.

Eventually, I understood that she wasn’t capable of returning the care I was giving her. I questioned why I was waiting for someone who didn’t even care. She seemed really happy without me, and while I was waiting for her messages and looking for her in classes, she never seemed to miss me. That’s when I gave up the idea of being with her and thought that God must have a plan for me—and He did.

Do you ever feel like you are doing good, but would do better if people hadn’t blamed you or even bothered you? I have gotten lonely, but I always am up to something (creating my destiny).

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~Phoenix 🐦‍🔥

Thankyou & Takcare !!!

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Lastly, I would say, if you keep holding the door, no one will be able to leave or enter.

So, coming to the question: I think you should move on. Stop thinking about them—if they are meant to be in your life, they will be. But until then, let them go. You will find your true special person once you get over them.